Let me start off by saying that I’m writing this article from the perspective of a straight, nerdy man, because I happen to be one. You’ll hear me throw around the word “girlfriend” a lot, but everything I say is applicable to absolutely anyone, no matter what gender you’re interested in! So with that out of the way…
Finding a girlfriend can be hard, like… really hard. You’ve probably realized by now that it’s not like you see in the movies, with a suave man tossing around some cheesy pickup lines and scoring the girl, and though you may not realize it right now – weather you’re between girlfriends or simply never had one – but this is actually a good thing.
So what’s the deal?
Well, in the short term, you’re a man with urges. It can be frustrating when you go months (or years) without taking a dip in the pool, but you do have options (more on that in a moment) and this personal times gives you an opportunity to improve yourself. Because here’s the secret, women are attracted to men that live interesting lives. Honestly, that’s it. Figure out what hobbies you enjoy by experimenting, and get out there. You’ll probably meet a ton of women DOING these hobbies.
And while you’re working on that, you can practice some other skills as well. Head over to PinkCherry or Fleshlight (NSFW), have a look around, and I have a feeling you’ll understand the… thrust, of my point. You see, you can practice some useful skills and work out some pent up urges at the same time. Taking care of things with your hands is fine and well, but if you can practice with something a lot more realistic, then I promise you won’t regret it. That physical connection with a woman is a skill like any other, and thankfully it’s a ton of fun to practice.
If you have any questions or comments, don’t hesitate to leave me a message below!